leading  ladies

Leading Ladies

A community of passionate, like-minded pastors’ wives dedicated to serving God and advancing His kingdom.

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Our mission

“Empowering Pastors’ wives in understanding their assignments and making  positive impacts  through their leadership position.”

Leading Ladies,

Leading Ladies is a House of Praise Ministry that celebrates and empowers pastors’ wives to achieve their God-given destiny and be a positive influence on their community.

Leading Ladies Ministry is inspired by my personal experience and that of other pastors’ wives. Although the position of a “Pastor’s Wife” is an all encompassing role, it does not come with a job description. Like other pastors’ wives, I found myself constantly wondering how to effectively navigate this position. How to effectively serve my husband, family and church community whilst trying to avoid internalizing pain and frustration.

This is a community of like-minded pastors’ wives who are dedicated to serving God’s people and advancing His Kingdom. It is a platform that will celebrate and empower us through the provision of divinely inspired teachings, mentorship sessions and events. These resources will aid in navigating and managing our relationship with the church community and our spouse in his role as our husband and as the senior pastor from God’s point of view.

You are appreciated! You are loved! Your community values you!



Leading Ladies Toolbox

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The Strategic Focus To Your Role

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insights fromTopsy

Twenty-Two years ago, my life changed! (wow, I can't believe it has been 22 years already!)

My husband and I moved to Canada to pursue a better life for ourselves and our family. Unknowing to us God had a better plan, He called us to be pastors and start a dynamic, spirit filled church (House of Praise) under the Redeemed Christian Church of God.

It has been an extremely rewarding calling, one I will answer 100 times again. However, stepping into the role of a pastor's wife wasn't what I had envisioned for my future. I did not marry my husband as a Pastor. As a matter of fact, our dream to move to Canada was inspired by the pursuit of his journey as a Pharmacist (amongst other things). So how did we adjust to this new call on our lives?

I increased my dependency on God and spent more quality time with seeking God's guidiance and direction. I remember one specific question I asked God and that was “God help me understand your expectation of me” and that was a game changer! God renewed my mindset, he led me to mentors who were able to guide me in making the right decisions both in my home and in the church. Another thing I did to adjust to the role of a pastor's wife was to understand that my husband was not just my husband but he also serves as the senior pastor of the church. To navigate that new relationship we had a conversation about his expectations of me serving in the capacity of a pastor's wife.

In my 22 years of serving in this position, I have had the opportunity to mentor and counsel various pastors' wive's from across the globe. I understand that adjusting to the role of a pastor's wife and serving in this capacity comes with certain discomforts and nuances that other people might not understand. God sees you. He has called you to this position and has equipped you with all you need to be successful in serving His people and advancing His Kingdom. God says in Isaiah 41:10 NKJV “fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”

I am super excited and passionate about all God is about to do through you!

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Be Empowered through discipleship
Here, you will find divinely inspired resources to guide you in navigating the position of a pastor’s wife.
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I am fearless

because I am his daughter.I am not a second thought;I am his first love.


The Leading Ladies Toolbox is a hub of resources divinely inspired by God to empower Pastor’s wives on their journey of greatness and fulfill their God-given mandates.

The Leading Ladies Toolbox can be accessed by registering your email here. A link will be sent to the email you provided, click the link in the email and get redirected to the Leading Ladies toolbox website.